(So You Can Finally Talk About What You Want)

A 1-hour live workshop to help you share your desires with confidence, clarity, and connection.

Date: Wednesday, December 3rd, 8PM EST
Where: Live on ZOOM
Investment: $26
Includes: Workbook

Save Your Spot for $26

Here’s What We’ll Do Together

You’ll leave ready to:

  • Start the conversation (without freezing or fumbling)
  • Translate your kink into language your partner can understand
  • Name what you want beneath the action: the feelings, not just the fantasy
  • Create connection instead of confusion

This isn’t about shock value, it’s about self-expression that lands.

Sign Up Now

The Turn-On (What Shifts for You)

After this class, you’ll walk away with:

  • A clear script and emotional framework for your own “kink talk”
  • A deeper understanding of what your kink really means to you
  • The language to help your partner meet you with curiosity, not confusion

Because safety is sexy. And clarity? That’s foreplay.

Save My Spot

If You’ve Ever Thought “What If They Think I’m Weird?”

Have you ever thought:

“I want to tell them, but I don’t know how.”

“What if they think I’m weird?”

 “They tried once, it went badly, and I’m scared to bring it up again.”

You’re not alone. Everyone who’s ever had alternative desires has felt that same fear.
But you can absolutely have that conversation. calmly, confidently, and in your own words.

Who’s Guiding You

Hi, I’m Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant.

I help people untangle shame, name their desires, and create relationships that actually fit who they are. Through workshops, private coaching, and grounded education, I help folks talk about the things they’ve been too afraid to name.

Learn More About Amanda!

How to Tell Your Partner Your Kink

Learn how to open up about your desires without scaring them off.In this one-hour workshop, Amanda walks you through how to name your kinks, translate them into emotional language, and confidently start the conversation with your partner.

$26.00 USD

Let’s Do This Together

Ready to stop holding your breath and start the conversation?
Join me live for How to Tell Your Partner Your Kink,  and leave with words that work.

Sign Up Now

Not Ready to dive deep into it?

Download the “Speak Your Desires With Confidence” Workbook to ease in at your own pace and find the right words to express what you truly want.

Speak Your Desires With Confidence