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Ten years ago, after moving to New York City, she found herself surrounded by people who unapologetically embraced their uniqueness. Challenged to do the same, she began exploring her own kinks, desires, and the deeper psychology behind them.

Today, as a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach and Certified Sexologist, Amanda helps individuals and couples understand the roots of their desires, not just express them, but integrate them.

Her work is grounded in one core belief:
There is no one-size-fits-all model for intimacy.

Through her consulting method, media appearances, and speaking engagements, Amanda guides people toward a more honest, balanced, and empowered relationship with their sexuality, one built on clarity, consent, and self-acceptance.

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After 5 sessions my journey is still a work in progress but with each session I leave feeling lighter and my head is much clearer on how to approach things moving forward.

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Feeling stuck, unsure, or intimidated by your dating life, kink dynamics, or personal relationships? In a 1-on-1 session, we’ll cut through the noise and build a roadmap tailored to your desires and boundaries. You’ll leave feeling clear, confident, and ready to take action, whether that’s navigating tough conversations, stepping into your role with pride, or finding the connection you’ve been craving.

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